FRUITS OF ANGER
Love and Anger are presumably the most powerful emotions. These powerful emotions need a deliberate mindset to maximize their intent.
Let's talk about Anger.
Anger solves what love might not solve in the immediate. Love is meant to be expressed always. Anger should only appear in situations love can't take the lead. However, it should be expressed with love as the baseline.
How to manage ANGER
If you admit that Anger destroys situations faster than it could repair, you would be very careful with the use of anger if your intention is never to destroy. From my perspective, there are two kinds of Anger, Controlled and Uncontrolled Anger.
Controlled Anger: This kind of anger is expressed deliberately to end a menace with strong intent to warn. Expressing this anger have love always as the baseline. It is expressed with a deliberate intent to warn. This anger often puts an end to a menace.
The expresser of controlled anger approaches all situations with love and only invites anger deliberately to warn ⚠️.
Uncontrolled Anger: This kind of anger often originates from an unconscious state. It takes full control of both it expresser and the situation. It is triggered by any event that irritates the Ego. Attachment to Ego is the driver of this anger. Hence, it is often expressed each time the Ego feels threatened. Such Anger destroys situations most times.
Uncontrolled Anger is not controlled by the expresser of the emotions but the force suggesting the thoughts. The hidden forces suggesting these thoughts expressed as anger aim is to destroy the person expressing the emotion and the situation.
In conclusion, the “Most High” only expresses anger on a group or person after several warnings with affection and patience. Anger only manifests with love as the baseline to put an end to the menace and warn vehemently.
Parents who express anger on their child often could be misconstrued as weakness by the child in an event of a menace that genuinely needs to be arrested. The child would say " I am used to my parents’ nagging".
Research has shown that such child would likely return to the grievous act. This is an unworthy impact of uncontrolled anger.
Anger is an overwhelming emotion and could overpower anyone.
My advice is to have an in-depth understanding of Anger as an emotion needed to create value through deliberate intent. However, this profound knowledge could only be mastered with a calm mind.
Make a difference to yourself and the world, Use Anger wisely.



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