NO WOMAN, NO MAN

I took a break for a while but sincerely missed expressing my thoughts on this space.Though it frequently resonates in my heart to put my thoughts down,I had a hand-full of issues that needed to be filtered thoroughly.I sincerely apologize for the hiatus. Hopefully, I would be more consistent this year God willing.

I was inspired with couple of intuitive thoughts which I would be excited to share with everyone. Let's kick-off with an issue that has burdened my heart for a while.... The humorous tale of a gem we all nurture.

She might look brittle. Her countenance could be meek, but only the mightiest within her clan could shoulder her lofty burdens.Her silence could be interpreted as weakness, but her moments of solitude personifies her fortitude.Myriad of epistles could be ambiguous to explain her intent, yet her jaunty smile would refresh a warrior's heart. Playing second fiddle in competition could be misconstrued as lackluster,but her magnified sight on details and unfading gaze behind the forerunner shows her passion to shield and guide her team...Amazing beauty in the sight of the molder.Articulate with an irrevocable spirit in the sight of mystics...What more can you question in the power of a WOMAN!

Almost everyone has benefited from a woman's altruism. However, only the sage amongst men comprehends the silver linings embedded in their women (Women in this context refers to any female inclined to a man's sojourn).

We can relate to the astounding role a mother plays in a man's life. The authority God has bestowed on a mother is irretrievable and it emerges as one of the greatest force a man depends on. It's a dependable factor for every man even if he is naive about it.

"Behind every successful man is a woman". The subservient nature of most women often deludes men from this fact. A wise woman needs to be subservient to her man not because she is mentally weak but because she is the visionary and hidden guide the man needs to be successful. A wise man would prioritize his woman if he his gracious to understand this fact!

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It has been designed by the Almighty for men to be the head of the family. However, a wise man identifies beforehand his purpose could only be fulfilled if his home is preserved. He acknowledge out-rightly that he lacks the rudiments to maintain a home, and would leverage on the intellect of his wife in achieving his goal.Though he is applauded for the success as the leader, he understands the success is primarily attributed to the intuitive and selfless qualities of his woman.

Different factors breeds success for a man but his naivety often deludes him.Every soul at a designated time in their life has a graceful portion of divine bounties the Almighty has apportioned to them during their journey.I think as a custodian entrusted with leadership responsibilities, sometimes the portion of bounties for other family members at a designated time could be entrusted to the leader to access his commitment to fend for his family. Unfortunately, man sometimes take the glory and misappropriate the divine largess without prioritizing his woman.

A wise man understands his blessings are attached to his woman.He is selfless in considering the comfort of his woman.He is swift to show gratitude to God for blessing him with a good woman. 

I was quite mystified on the reality of a thought that struck my mind about human needs.This made me to postulate a theory called "The theory of generic human needs". It states "A man's satisfaction is often directly dependent on his mutual relationship with his opposite sex, while a woman's satisfaction seldom depends on her mutual relationship with her opposite sex".

Let's analyze the aforementioned theory with this analogy. A grown up woman is given two options. The first option is to have all her material needs including children without no affiliation with a man. The second option is to enjoy her affiliation with a man and continue the rest of her life without her material needs.Which option would most women embrace?
Now, flip the script; give a man all his material needs and much more, but deprive him of any affiliation with women.Would most men consider the option?

Well, It's an open conversation that is relative.However, I think it paraphrases the importance of the pearl that often makes a man glitter but yet undermined.A wise man would always value his pearl (his woman),and would remain grateful for her positive influence.

In Bob Marley's voice.."No Woman,No Man", "No Woman,No Man" !